There is your problem! You make unrealistic demands and then act all aggressive when your demands are not met, but yet you would criticise the USA if they took the same approach. It's called double standards and means you won't get an amicable agreement.
I have great sympathy for anyone trying to negotiate with someone that holds your attitude. You are losing support, because of your attitude.
So its an unrealistic demand to be treated fair and equal.
Fact stands, we dont negotiate under pressure. USA can come back into old agreement and then we talk or not at all.